A groundbreaking exploration of the psychology of infatuation, how to recognize it, and how to move beyond it towards a healthier experience of love.
“Butterflies” in the stomach, intrusive thoughts, fantasies about imaginary scenarios, mood swings from euphoria to despair… aren’t these all the familiar hallmarks of new love? Not quite. These are characteristics of the psychological state of “limerence,” also known as obsessive, passionate or addictive love that can become unhealthy.
Millions of people experience limerence at some point in their life. In this book, neuroscientist Tom Bellamy explores advances in neuroscience since the term was coined in the 1970s, and sheds light on this little-understood element of the human experience. Discover:
· what drives limerence
· how to recognize limerence in yourself and others
· how to manage the phases of addiction to another person
· how to move past it to sustain longer, more fulfilling relationships.
With supportive advice about next steps, this book will help readers struggling with unwanted feelings to find emotional equilibrium. Rooted in neuroscience, this book offers practical guidance for those experiencing obsessive love and seeking a path to a healthy relationship.
ASIN : B0DPTN9BXJ
Publisher : St. Martin’s Essentials
Accessibility : Learn more
Publication date : February 3, 2026
Language : English
Print length : 288 pages
ISBN-13 : 978-1250392688
Best Sellers Rank: #617,745 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store) #471 in Mate Seeking (Kindle Store) #751 in Interpersonal Relations (Kindle Store) #1,083 in Love & Romance (Kindle Store)
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