Someone pushes your buttons. You feel rage, fear, sweaty palms, unbidden tears—you feel like a kid.
We’ve all experienced moments when we lose control of a situation and ourselves. Now, in Growing Yourself Back Up, the first book to explain the idea of emotional regression to the general reader, bestselling author John Lee identifies the circumstances that cause these seemingly uncontrollable feelings and shows how they are directly tied to our experience as children.
No adult, explains Lee, need ever experience the helpless feelings of childhood again. Here are his proven methods and visualization exercises, developed in his popular workshops, for recognizing, preventing, and diffusing regression in ourselves and others. He teaches, for example, that adults cannot be abandoned, they can only be left; if we’re feeling abandoned we’re regressing. He also reminds us that no matter how overwhelmed we are, adults always have options; if we believe we don’t, we’re in a regression.
Growing Yourself Back Up will show you how to:
* develop strong emotional boundaries and convey them to others
* learn the Detour Method that reverses regression
* confront without regressing
* communicate with the authority figures who push your buttons
* minimize regression at family functions
Lee offers hope—as well as practical strategies that work—for conquering those childlike feelings of powerlessness that are almost always rooted in regression.
ASIN ‏ : ‎ B0037BS2NG
Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harmony
Accessibility ‏ : ‎ Learn more
Publication date ‏ : ‎ February 6, 2010
Edition ‏ : ‎ 1st
Language ‏ : ‎ English
File size ‏ : ‎ 1.8 MB
Screen Reader ‏ : ‎ Supported
Enhanced typesetting ‏ : ‎ Enabled
X-Ray ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Word Wise ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Print length ‏ : ‎ 242 pages
ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0307434227
Page Flip ‏ : ‎ Enabled
Best Sellers Rank: #369,270 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store) #127 in Emotional Self Help #164 in Interpersonal Relations (Books) #254 in Mate Seeking (Kindle Store)
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